Salam I want to write something on confidence. In Malaysia, if you are the man, when you are asked to sit opposite to the Imam / Juru nikah.. you have to sit and listen what he will instruct you to do. 2) At the time of marriage, the Imam/ Juru Nikah will read something ..and suddenly ..he pulled your arms .. and quickly you have to say something like this “.. I accept this marriage to Lady Mariana bte Obama with mas khawin RM75 cashhhhhh..”. The word cashhhhh is pronouncee in a very special tone .. may be due to the influence of arab/ indian/ hisdustani culture in this country. What I am trying to say is .. the man must be very confident to profess .. that he is going to take care of lady mariana .. in all circumstances no matter what come may. Yes ..the word is CONFIDENT. We have to be confident to carry some one you call as your dear wife .. to live in all conditions. What come may .. Tsunami/ Politics/ Olympics/ .. come shine come rain .. you will be confidently support her for ever. The big question mark is .. why you suddenly LOST HOPE in her .. during the process of divorce .. and what not .. the hell of your life together and print the story in METRO News. The world , now, knows that ..you had acted the confidence out .. in front of the public .. just for the sake of getting married to some one you think can bring happiness to you in this world. What a shame you brought to your self young man! Take care. Wallahu hu aklam.

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